Preface
I have researched psychological disorders and developed psychology treatment methods and psychological theories. I have not majored in psychology, psychology counseling, or psychiatry, but have developed the Theory of Mimind, the Theory of Xesmind, and the Theory of Migene based on years of counseling and treatment training experiences to treat psychological disorders. Also, it was found that sexual dysfunctions and physical illnesses could be improved in the process of treating psychological disorders. Not being a medical doctor, I was not able to study on the treatment methods of physical illnesses, but was able to study on the treatment methods of sexual dysfunctions, and developed Xes Therapy, a treatment method for sexual dysfunctions.
Human beings, whether females or males, have body and mind, but the principles by which mind operates in the body is not accurately interpreted.
The Theory of Mimind on the principles of the operation of human mind and psychology was developed in the process of treating people who suffered from stress and wounds and treating psychological disorders, and the Theory of Xesmind in the process of treating psychological disorders and the disorders of psychology of sex.
The Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind were originally developed by the present author, and psychology treatment methods of treating males’ and females’ psychological disorders were also developed applying the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind. The treatment of wounds and that of psychology were differentiated, and the treatment methods were separately developed accordingly. Learning and training with the Theory of Mimind allows the prevention of psychological disorders by equipping with the ability to treat stress and wounds, and the methods of wound treatment and psychology treatment are perfected with the Theory of Xesmind.
Human mind consists of mimind that operates for general information and xesmind that operates for the mind of sex: xesmind. The term ‘mind’ is sometimes used to refer to mimind as opposed to xesmind in this book.
It was found that the concept of ‘mind’ as used in conventional meaning has limits in interpreting the mind that operates for general information and the mind that operates for the information of xes, and the development of the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind allowed the systematization of mimind and xesmind.
Human mind is composed of two parts:
The first is the mind of general, which operates on general information and knowledge (general information or the information of mimind). This is named ‘mimind’.
Mimind operates for processing information and knowledge by psychology and sensing the emotions.
The second is the mind that operates on the information of sex. This is named ‘xesmind’. Xesmind operates and processes the information of sex by xes psychology.
Mimind and xesmind are newly coined terms by the author.
The term ‘human mind’ has been used inclusively to describe mimind and xesmind, which led to difficulties in interpreting the principles of the operation of human mind and psychology. The discipline of conventional psychology studies only the psychologies of perception, memory, and expression that operate on mimind. The principles of the operation of mimind have not been adequately researched so far, not to mention the principles of the operation of xesmind and xes psychology.
The term ‘mind’ can be used to mean mimind in this book. All information except for xes information is referred to as the information of mimind or general information, and all information related with xes is referred to as xes information. Information and knowledge are to classified into information of mimind and that of xesmind. That is, the separation of mind into mimind and xesmind will allow the adequate analysis of the operation of human mind.
The effects of mind energy that operates in both mimind and xesmind on the body should be analyzed to understand that the causes of sexual dysfunctions, psychological disorders, and physical illnesses are related to the mind energy generated by mimind and xesmind.
The principles and the reasoning of mimind can be understood through the Theory of Mimind and those of xesmind through the Theory of Xesmind.
The principles of the operation of human mind and psychology can be understood through the Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind.
Within xesmind are xes perception through which xes information is perceived, xes memory through which xes information and xes wounds are stored, and xes expression through which xes information is expressed. Xes information does not exist by itself, but necessarily exists with general information.
Xes information is part of general information. Therefore, mind and psychology operate based on general information, and at the same time, xesmind and xes psychology operate based on xes information.
General information and knowledge without xes information let mind and psychology operate, and xesmind and xes psychology operate simultaneously with mind and psychology when xes information is included as part of the general information. General information necessarily operates in mimind whenever xes information operates in xesmind. Xesmind cannot operate independently, and the operation of xesmind is always accompanied by the operation of mimind.
For example, when ‘one watches a pornographic video on the mobile phone’, the phone and the act of watching at the phone are general information.
However, the pornographic video is xes information. ‘Watching a pornographic video on the mobile phone’ becomes xes information by combining general information and xes information. Then, the mobile phone becomes xes information from that moment, and xesmind is operated by xes information.
The information that combines general information and xes information is referred to xes information. Now, all information related to the mobile phone becomes xes information once one watches a pornographic video on the mobile phone, due to the xes information of the pornographic video.
For another example, in the information of ‘a sexy woman wearing a bikini bathing suit’, ‘a woman’ and ‘wearing’ are general information, and ‘sexy’ and ‘a bikini bathing suit’ can be xes information. ‘A sexy woman’ and ‘wearing a bikini bathing suit’ become xes information when combining general information and xes information, which creates the xes information of ‘a sexy woman wearing a bikini bathing suit’. Although general information operates here, it operates to result in producing xes information. The analysis of the pattern of memory in this case shows that all information related to ‘a sexy woman’ and ‘a bikini bathing suit’ becomes xes information.
In case of ‘A woman and a man are having sex on the bed’, ‘a woman and a man on the bed’ is general information, and ‘having sex’ is xes information referring to sexual action. Then, the whole information of ‘A woman and a man are having sex on the bed’ becomes a piece of xes information. If one has this information stored in the memory, all information related to ‘the bed’ as well as ‘a woman and a man on the bed’ becomes xes information.
Xes information does not exist by itself, and should be combined with the information of mimind to exist. When the information of ‘A woman is sleeping naked’ is stored in the memory, ‘a woman’ is the information of mimind and ‘naked’ can be xes information. Then, all information related to ‘a woman’ becomes xes information and all information related to ‘a sleeping woman’ becomes xes information.
Also, in the information of ‘a slim woman is having sex in the pornographic video’, ‘a slim woman’ is the information of mimind, and ‘a pornographic video’ and ‘sex’ are xes information. Since then, all information related to ‘a slim woman’ operates as xes information.
Human beings have xesmind inside mimind. It is utterly challenging to interpret xesmind in the reality of not even being able to interpret mimind. All information and knowledge that is known to us are the result of distorted and faulty interpretation. Sexual dysfunctions, psychological disorders, and physical illnesses develop when the distorted information on sex is accepted as facts and conviction follows.
Mind energy that operates in mimind and xesmind is a crucial element in the analysis of mind. Mind energy is generated in human mind when mimind and xesmind operate. Humans not only have the energy that operates in the body, but also one that operates in mimind and xesmind. This energy does not flow in from the outside but is generated in one’s own mimind and xesmind.
This book is a report of the results of researching the principles of the operation of xesmind along with the principles of the operation of mind and psychology developed in the Theory of Mimind.
I earnestly thank Beehyun Park, Director of Korea Institute of Psycho-education, who has studied with me, and always helped me overcome all the challenges until this book is published, and the researchers of the Theory of Mimind and Xesmind. The Theory of Mimind and the Theory of Xesmind could not have been completed without their support.
Above all, all my gratitude is for those who participated in the treatment of psychological disorders and sexual dysfunctions, the treatment training of Therapy Tour, the training of Mimind and Xesmind. The development of the Theory of Xesmind was possible thanks to their efforts. And last but not least, I would like to thank my family with all my heart, who have always trusted and supported me for the projects I undertook.
Table of Contents
Chapter 1. The Theory of Mimind
1. The Principles of the Operation of Mind and Psychology
2. The Structure of Human Psychology
3. The Research Background of the Theory of Mimind
4. The Hypotheses of the Theory of Mimind
5. The Theory of Mimind and Academic Disciplines
6. Practical Application of the Theory of Mimind
7. The Existence and Self-actualization
8. Mind and Psychology
9. The Psychology of Perception
10. The Psychology of Memory
11. The Psychology of Expression
12. Trauma
13. Psychological Problems and Psychological Disorders
14. The Errors of the Study of Psychology
15. The Concept of Psychology Treatment
16. Psychology Treatment and Wound Treatment
17. Men’s and Women’s Psychology Treatment
Chapter 2. The Theory of Xesmind
1. Xes, a New Concept
2. Developmental Background
3. Hypotheses of the Theory of Xesmind
4. Xesmind and Xes Psychology
5. The Theory of Xesmind
6. Xesmind
7. Xes Psychology
8. The Principles of Psychology and Xes Psychology
9. Perception and Xes Perception
10. Memory and Xes memory
11. Expression and Xes Expression
12. The Developmental Process of Xes-psychology
13. The Concept of Xes Information
14. The Difference between Men and Women
15. The Difference between Xes and Sex
16. Components of Xes
17. Men’s sexual desire is the desire of Xesmind
18. Women’s sexual desire is the desire of Mimind
Chapter 3. Xesmind and Xes Psychology
1. The Xesmind of a Person and a Person in Relationship
2. The Mimind and the Xesmind of a Person in Relationship (PIR)
3. The Psychology and Xes psychology of Human Beings
4. What Is Sex to Human Beings?
5. Human Relationship and Xes Relationship
6. The Xesmind of Men and Women
7. Men’s and Women’s xes psychology
8. Men’s and Women’s Xes-function
9. Men’s and Women’s Desire for Xes
10. Men’s and Women’s Sex
11. Men’s and Women’s Xes-trouble
12. Xes psychology of Opposite Sex Relationships
13. The Root Source of Mimind and Xesmind
Chapter 4. Xes Psychology in Human Relationships
1. The Principles of Men’s Xes Happiness
2. The Principles of Women’s Xes Happiness
3. Xes Happiness of Married Couples
4. Xes Psychology between the Opposite Sex
5. Xes Psychology between the Same Sex
6. Women’s Love and Xes Psychology
7. Men’s Passion and Xes Psychology
8. Men’s and Women’s Pleasure
9. Men’s and Women’s Sex Psychology
10. Xes Psychology in Romantic Relationships
11. Xes Psychology in Marriage
12. Xes Psychology in Divorced People
13. Xes Psychology in Remarriage
14. Xes Psychology in the Bereavement of the Spouse
15. Human Relationships and Xes Relationships
16. Xes Psychology in Intimate Human Relationships
17. Xes Psychology in Conscious Human Relationships
18. Xes Psychology in Abnormal Human Relationships
19. Too Much Is As Bad As Too Little for Xes Psychology
Chapter 5. Xes Emotion and Xes Desire
1. The Xes Unconscious
2. Xesmind and Xes Emotion
3. Five Senses and Xes Emotion
4. Facts and Emotions of Xes
5. Xes Moods and Xes Feelings
6. Men’s Xes Desire
7. Women’s Xes Desire
8. Xes Desire and Xes Stress
Chapter 6. Xes Trauma
1. Women’s Xes Trauma
2. Women’s Defense Standard of Xes Trauma
3. Women’s Treatment Habits of Xes Trauma
4. Men’s Xes Trauma
5. Men’s Defense Standard of Xes Trauma
6. Men’s Treatment Habits of Xes Trauma
7. The Disorder of Xes Psychology
Chapter 7. Sex Crimes
1. The Concept of Sex Crimes
2. The Prevention of Sex Crimes
3. The Treatment of Trauma Caused by Sex Crimes
4. Sexual Violence
5. Sexual Harassment
6. Prostitution
7. Victim Psychology in Sex Crimes
8. Treatment for the Perpetrator of Sex Crimes
Chapter 8. Sexual Dysfunctions
1. What is Xes Function?
2. The Impact of Physical Sensation on Mind
3. The Memory of Xes Emotion and Its Impact on the Body
4. Men’s Xes Function
5. Men's Xesmind and Xes Function
6. Women’s Xes Function
7. Women’s Xesmind and Xes Function
8. Difference in Men's and Women’s Xes Function
9. Xes Psychology and Xes Function
10. Sexual Desire and Xes Function
11. Xes Immersion and Xes Function
12. Stress and Xes Function
13. Wounds and Xes Function
14. Difference in Perception of Xes Function
15. Men’s Sexual Dysfunction
16. The Concept of Men’s Sexual Dysfunction
17. The Cause of Men’s Sexual Dysfunction
18. Introduction to Women’s Sexual Dysfunction
19. The Cause of Women’s Sexual Dysfunction
20. Difference in Perception of Sexual Dysfunction
Appendix 1. The Xes Psychology of Sex Education
Appendix 2. The Psychology of Sex Techniques
